Embracing Friend or Foe

"It takes a great deal of courage to stand up to your enemies,

but even more to stand up to your friends."

J.K. Rowling

Confrontation from our enemies is usually anticipated.  We do not necessarily seek support from those who have previously judged us.  The criticism from friends is not usually expected.  To be in a friend's face, we are probably hurting esteem in addition to crippling criticism of theory or project.

Through hate or insecurities, we are likely to unleash judgment that appears to be over the top.  My expectations of friends consists of treating each other with honor and respect.  It is important whom we choose as friends.  There is no need to gather a support system of those not deserving of trust. 

I have been blessed by friends who are interested in my evolvement.  When they do not understand or disagree, they ask questions and delve deeper. We support each other while expressing our personal opinion without using words that harm.  When I am honest with others, I tend to believe they will also be honest with me.  It is all about the chosen structure of a nurturing relationship.