"Promises are only as strong as the person who gives them."
Stephen Richards
It is easier to keep a promise made to a friend than it is to fulfill a promise to the self. If I give my word in commitment, it is solid and true, but to myself, not so much. Holding myself accountable is indeed a tool for exploration into breaking patterns of turbulence and desire.
I promise to my own self to be true, but desiring to be of service to others, I mistakenly regard his or her needs with greater importance. With years passing, I finally understand the connection between healing my wounds and personal responsibility. Ultimately, I cannot change anyone but myself, so I do have choice.
Under the full moon, I promise to treat myself with respect by honoring my needs discovered through deep dives into my history. What could I have done differently? I could have listened to myself. The moon reflects back to me courage to be fully me while meeting personal expectations. Better choices, better life.
