"Control is a manifestation of your own insecurity;
it is a sign that fear is trying to govern your mind."
yung pueblo
As the sands of time shift beneath our feet, we can experience anxiety and uncertainty. We believe if we manipulate a situation, we will be safe and secure. When we place our energy into efforts of control, we shut down possibilities to stretch and grow.
The underlying need for control is based on fear which clouds the availing opportunities for growth and expansion. When we push through our fear, assessing how the situation before us can become a learning tool, we can pivot ourselves into resolution.
It would be helpful to have warning lights to alert us when we are unnecessarily reverting to control. Rather than resistance, we can accept the reality of the situation, and choose the best course of navigation through it. Moving forward with confidence overrides our fear.
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