The Twisted Tree

"The twisted tree lives its life,

while the straight tree 

ends up in planks."

Chinese Proverb

While riding his bike on the greenway, my grandson (4 years old) began pointing out trees to me.  I was delighted in his interest so we slowed our pace and began closer inspections of the differences in roots, trunks and branches.  "They are so different," he said in awe.   We found the gnarly trees to be intriguing.

The same is true with people.  When we begin to see them for his or her own offering, a deeper appreciation emerges.  Life does not unfold in a straight line, but curves and spirals into unexpected directions.  The process, in which we choose to face challenges in the road, is what makes our character different from others.

As people strive for authenticity, they begin to dismantle their masks and layers of protection.  Personal irregularities are seen as unique tools for adapting to rough terrain.  Some have traveled with heavy boots and camouflage and others scantily dressed and barefoot.  As we recognize the variances of experience, we hopefully develop a deeper respect for the scars we tend to hide.