"The beginning of love is the will to let those we love
be perfectly themselves, the resolution not to twist
them to fit our own image."
Thomas Merton
We find ourselves drawn to a person who is unique, charismatic, and dramatically informed. Drawn like the moth to the fire, we are mesmerized by just the voice alone. An unexplainable connection immediately builds, strengthening the new relationship.
Fast forward and we will find ourselves resenting this persons ability to gather others in any given place. We may feel embarrassed by the flamboyant actions, wishing for someone who would just fit in. This person now irritates us like a narcissistic know it all.
The ability to respect differences and embrace commonalities is vitally important with any contact. Grounded in our own uniqueness, we are not threatened by others. We are eager to listen and truly hear the message and receive its gift. If we can allow each other to be who we are called to be, we can find ourselves thriving in a loving relationship.
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