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Showing posts with label Erma Bombeck. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Erma Bombeck. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 20, 2012

First Day of Summer




Being a child at home alone in the summer is a high-risk occupation.  If you call your mother at work thirteen times an hour, she can hurt you.  Erma Bombeck


Today is Summer Solstice, the first day of summer.  As a person who does not do well in the heat, I must comment that it seems summer began mid-spring this year.  Flowers and budding bushes or trees all unfolded earlier than usual and were joyfully welcomed by all.  Now, however, there is a lack of rain too early for this coming hot season.

Summer offers children freedom from school and homework; sprinklers or swimming pools; sleeping in or staying up a bit later; sleep overs; visits to relatives; and special summer camps.  My childhood summers were filled with roller skating, playing dress up with old curtains, riding bikes, hopscotch, endless board games or card games, jump rope and sitting under the street lamp waiting for "Jo Jo" the Good Humor Man to jangle his ice cream truck's bells. 

Once it was dark and we grew tired of catching fire flies, we all returned to our respective homes.  Sticky from a long day of play in the hot sun, a nice long bath washed all of the ice cream streaks and dirt away.  Clean sheets from the clothes line and fresh pajamas were the perfect ending to a long hot day of play.

In the summer night, my bedroom window would be open and through the screen I could smell the lilac bush outside.  I could hear the music from the carousal from Kiddie Land several blocks away.  I could also hear cheers from crowds at Thillens Little League as scoring runs were batted in. 

There was something peaceful about a summer night.  Maybe having the window open let me feel connected to the great world outside.  I would fall asleep knowing the beautiful stars were twinkling brightly and the magical moon gently crossed the sky.  I was certain they would be there again for me night after night, hanging in the summer sky.




Sunday, December 25, 2011

Finding the Child ...

 
 


There's nothing sadder in this world
than to awake Christmas morning
and not be a child.

Erma Bombeck



As the mother of four, making Christmas magical was a full time job.  Specialty stocking stuffers chosen specifically for each individual stocking took thought, preparation and time.  Christmas wrapping paper were of two different varieties: one was used only for Santa's presents, and the other for gifts from Mom or Dad.  Each child would receive his or her special ornament that had been selected with care (which they claimed for themselves once an adult leaving my tree almost bare!)

A variety of cookies needed to be baked as siblings never liked the same ones.  Groceries galore filled every inch of counter space.  Appropriate clothing for Christmas Eve church services or church Christmas programs or school Christmas programs needed to be purchased for all four growing children.  Hiding spots for the gathering purchases also needed to be discovered. 

Time had to be designated between the children's commitments, adult obligatory dinners, and gatherings of friends.  Then opportunities needed to be created between stories of the Christ child, Advent services, and religious reflection.

It is no wonder women suffer from empty nest syndrome once the children have all moved away.  What to do with all of the extra time? There are other resolves than waiting for grandchildren to start the crazy cycle of creating magic all over again.

After I had my children, I realized that I needed to withdraw from several activities in order to be the kind of mother I expected myself to be.  I recall this decision clearly and knew both then and years later that there would be time when to reclaim my life as my own.

Our age does not matter, however, when we have the opportunity to once again be a child.  Perhaps the awareness of a child could be with us daily.  We can hide gifts for friends; make a snow angel;  select a special present for ourselves, wrap it in decorative paper and place it mysteriously under the tree ... waiting like a child for Christmas morn.

Frequently, we are referred to as children of God.  In this sense we are called to experience life with childlike wonder, to maintain faith and trust like that of a child, and to play well with others.  Our gifts of course are not found under a tree, but rather well hidden and waiting to be discovered within ourselves.

So on this Christmas Day, through childlike eyes see the surrounding magic.  See the beauty of the earth, and the radiance in every one's hearts.  Listen for the whispers of guidance to be heard in the lyrics of Christmas Carols or to be found in the written word. 

Light one candle, just one small votive candle in honor of yourself, in respect for all that has been given and all that has yet to come.  Give praise and thanksgiving for the freedom to celebrate the Christmas Season in whatever manner you choose. 


 On this Christmas Day,
I wish you a heart full of happiness
and a mind filled with inspiration
and wonderment!


Sunday, March 20, 2011

When I Stand Before God ...

"When I stand before God
at the end of my life,
I would hope that I would not have
a single bit of talent left and could say:
I used everything you gave me."

Erma Bombeck