Distance From Misunderstanding

 

"The greatest distance between two people is misunderstanding."

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When words are spoken, they often lose intentional meaning. The person listening is apt to translate each word based on his or her own emotional makeup. What is said may be taken out of context and misconstrued. When offense is taken, a divide is created forming a negative consequence to the relationship.

When left unaddressed, this division grows wider. Energy is used to defend the self rather than finding common ground. It is human nature for emotional reaction to hamper  elements of healing. When ignored, a deeper infestation occurs. There comes the time when evaluation is necessary to determine closure or new growth.

If we can stand back from an emotionally triggered situation, and determine if we are more interested in winning an argument or salvaging a relationship, the path becomes clear. Do we want to let go or begin anew? Either way, it is best to address the issue with respect for the other as well as respect for the self.