Emotionally Bilingual

 

"May you attract someone who speaks your language

so you don't have to spend a life time translating your soul."

Ishqbe Rung

When we stop comparing ourselves to others and disengage from activities that do not ignite our curiosity, individual preference steers us towards meaningful discovery. Following our own lead, we become acquainted with those who are also seeking personal desire. It is this common denominator that attracts relationship.

The key to relationship is to be present without judgment. We do not need to speak each other's language as through listening, we begin to see into one's soul. Whether we agree or not is irrelevant as the goal is to understand. Individually we want to to be seen and heard just as we are.

There is truth in seeing the self reflected back when we engage with those we trust. As our significant other listens, we can hear the honesty of what we have to say, and adjust accordingly. To be emotionally bilingual offers a deeper connection than simply reciting similar words.