I have not decided, yet!

"Not making a decision means

forgoing an opportunity."

Auliq Ice

There isn't any certainty as to when an opportunity will appear.  We may hope for years for something to come along or we might immediately catch a glimpse of a creative idea.  Unfortunately, we may be over come by fear and not be able to make a choice.  We remain stuck, inactive, and withdrawn based on fear.  The point is, to do nothing is a reflection of the choice to do nothing.  To say, "I haven't decided'" is fair and often times important, but when it continues to be a permanent position, the decision making is over.

The same holds true when we hear of an opportunity and a friend encourages us to participate, but we make up lame excuses.  Everyone in the family can make demands upon us, and yet we hesitate to carve out a small segment of time to nurture the self.

When people enquire about our progress, with relief we say the position has been filled or the class is full giving the power outside of our selves so we still don't need to decide.  Sometimes we even feel relief when we no longer have the option.  Please open those beautiful eyes to see an opportunity to enliven parts within.