Table for Two ...

 

"Much unhappiness has come into the world because of

bewilderment and things left unsaid."

Fyodor Dostoevsky

The couple sat at a romantic table with flowers and candles. They seemed to be hiding behind their menus. They ordered their fancy dinners speaking animatedly with the waiter. When he walked away, all of the warmth at the table disappeared. For the duration of the meal, no words were exchanged.

Companionship opens the doorway to communication, and a partner is for exchanging ideas. Even friends are meant for sharing. Some grow comfortable with silence, living inside his or her own imaginary scenarios while others feel isolated or insignificant. Taking the risk to expose our current thought process is imperative.

Why do people invest in relationships that do not nurture? Do they really want to live what is left of their life invisible? When we use our voice, personal understanding can be revealed to the self and to others. Our words paint a picture of who we are and if they are not welcomed, perhaps we need to change tables and sit in a different chair!

Glimmers of Light

"Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness."

Desmond Tutu

Walking in the neighborhood, I passed homes with light shining outward into the darkness.  The windows held radiant beams that stirred emotions within me. The projected glow somehow warmed my heart. Even though I was on the outside, there was comfort in knowing that there was light throughout the world.

There are numerous ways light touches us. Whether a lighthouse or a firefly, a campfire or a candle, the sacredness of light can help us feel reverent or safe. Some are drawn by the moon or the sun as a focal point for calm. And what of the stars glittering up in the sky? If we slowed down, the glimmer would catch our eye.

We house a light inside of ourselves that expands and contracts. It may not be seen by others, but they indeed can sense it. We can be a beacon for those who are feeling lost or seeking a safe harbor. Our warm glow can offer comfort and calm. Light a candle today and celebrate the light that dwells within.