"Showing a lack of self-control is in the same vein granting authority to others."
Criss Jami
Flexibility is important when dealing with others, but not at the cost of self. The stronger our belief system, the less reaction we have to someone else's challenge. If our need to be appreciated is greater than self-respect, too readily our personal power begins to shift. We become less of who we are and more easily manipulated.
When we choose to stand by what we hold dear, those who do not align with us may not be the people we need to have in our presence. There is nothing wrong with disagreement unless it requires self-defacement. There is great value in allowing space for all people, but not if requires us to be smaller.
When we are content with our personal power, we are free to visit diversity. With honor and respect, we can visit differences with the option of changing our perceptions. Pay attention to physical reaction, as it is newsworthy as well. Remain balanced and appreciate those who understand our passion and remain by our side.
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