"I find the best way to love someone is not to change them, but instead,
help them reveal the greatest version of themselves."
Steve Maraboli
Compassion for others has been prevalent throughout my life. It was never a decision or choice; it was just automatically present. It wasn't about feeling sorry for the person but rather seeing a goodness inside of them that needed nurturing and recognition. There was my desire for them to see the value of their authentic self.
Accepting a person's right to be where they are, knowing that change will occur only if they are ready, assists in maintaining healthy boundaries. There is wisdom in knowing when to step back. A person, ultimately, follows his or her journey alone. They will find their self-worth with or without me.
Unfortunately, there are other scenarios where my compassion runs too deeply and over extension occurs. My own energy field becomes depleted in my efforts to encourage and support. It is difficult to walk away when his or her potential is not yet recognized, but each in our own way, in our own time.
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