Moderately Acceptable

"It never takes longer than a few minutes,

when they get together, for everyone to

revert to the state of nature, like a party 

marooned by a shipwreck."

Michael Chabon

There are many layers to a holiday and preparation is needed physically, mentally and spiritually.  Physically, we may increase our exercise or cut down on preceding meals or select our most comfortable clothing.  We make promises to be restrictive in our beverages and  in our choices; take smaller portions;  and limit sweet indulgences.

The factor that many of us need to prepare mentally is in itself sad.  We attempt to bury offenses and plaster a smile across our face.  There are endless triggers when we think of regrouping during the holidays and in spite of our pep talks, we return to the original formation of our clan.  Once the baby always the baby even at the age of 65.

Spiritually, we can clean our glasses for new perceptions and do our best to remain aligned.  Without judgment we can experience diversity in the midst of our gathering.  We present with humble honor towards others, refraining from unnecessary comments, and dashing out the door when moderately acceptable!