Choose The Next Best Thing

"I tried to think of the good thing to do.

The best thing."

Lisa Wingate

We grow comfortable with our existence, sometimes becoming complacent.  We reach a particular goal and stop the routine of nurturing and exploring.  We choose to spend our time day dreaming and wishing, when it would be more beneficial to be opening to our next endeavor. What is the next best thing and what steps can be taken in this moment?

Nature reflects the ideal cycle. The seeds push through the earth towards light, giving birth to a new stalk with buds. Then it continues to unfold into flowers, but it does not stop there. In the beauty of the petals, inspiration produces another burst of creativity. Yes, it eventually dies, but the seeds will push up from the darkness again and again.

Indulge in creative stimulation. Pull out a book once savored or dust off the easel. Attend or initiate a gathering of like minded souls. Get outside of the self into nature, but then take a deep dive within to discover what awakens the spirit. We are given this life and repeatedly, we must choose the best thing to do. 

                                             

Bites You In The Butt ...

"I was sick of people being hard on each other,

being hateful and critical when there wasn't

any need for it."

Lisa Wingate

The pattern became apparent. Three kind statements followed by a very negative comment. So the last thing to be remembered was not the positive, but the derogatory mark. The sequence was repetitive with the goal to isolate. The ability to  conquer and divide was an attempt to gain acceptance by manipulation.

When we sincerely sing the praises of genuine aspects of others, we are seen in a good light as well. We can do this easily when we recognize and respect our own goodness. There is no threat and no competition as we all have authentic contributions. The appreciation for life expands personally and collectively.

When we choose to discredit others as a mode of communication, it will eventually come back to bite us in the butt. Instead of creating intimate relationships, the opposite will happen. We will experience a wider distance with others in which we will flounder. If we choose to hold our tongue until we can speak with kindness, we will gain what we seek.

Oh, The Places You Can Go!

"Don't let them tell you who you are. 

You know who you are."

Lisa Wingate

It takes courage to move forward, stepping outside of our given roles. Loved ones may encourage us to change, as long as it doesn't alter his or her position. As we move forward, leaving our comfort zone behind, life can appear to be rather frightening. Uncertainty, however, is not a reason to stop.

When our view is unclear, it is an opportunity to be creative in our thoughts, explorations, and choices. It is imperative to not continue making the same decisions, but rather, stepping outside of the cage that has been holding us entirely too tight. Peal pack thoughts of limitation, and rediscover authentic parts that have been dormant way too long.

Follow the process of expanding thought accompanied by small movement while holding a snippet of future manifestation.  As thoughts become strongly linked together, begin to take larger steps, adding more definition to outcome. The process of thought, movement, and choice begins to flow, escorting us into places we did not previously know.

 

Lingering No More ...

"Daughter, do not linger where you are.

Take up your needle and your thread,

and go see to the mending."

Lisa Wingate

As we move through life, we have choice as to what we will nurture and grow. Input from valued individuals help to guide us, but these opinions must never over ride the truth residing within our hearts.

Life is filled with obstacles not meaning to cause us to falter. They are meant to nudge us towards higher intention. Forward movement, when using a cadence perfect for learning and adapting, becomes imperative in order to avoid being distracted or stuck.

We move forward by reviewing gathered wisdom and welcoming the unknown. It is when we pick up the needle and thread, mending what has been torn apart that we begin to make  a tapestry out of our life. Proceed, lingering no more.