Friday, November 12, 2021

Measured Doses

 



"It is best to give away little doses of your true self and wait 
to get a reaction before disclosing any hint of the abyss within."
 Janet Conner

As we slow our thoughts down, we can best choose how much or how little we want to disclose  There are times when advancement is vibrating through us, but it is best if we  allow a period of  incubation  for comprehensive depth.

Filled with excitement of new discovery,  we may be tempted to purge before someone who is not yet prepared for such disclosure.  If we are not careful in choosing our confidants, we may find our excitement squashed, as well as our discovery.  Fear and doubt can make us question what we have just learned as truth.

We choose a doctor, dentist, or lawyer, so why not determine who are best listener might be?  Seek a therapist or kindred spirit, who will emote open hearted listening without judgment.  Begin by sharing a small segment and observe the facial expressions and body language of the selected listener.  These reflections will help discern  how much or how little one divulges. 



 

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