Illusion of Protection

"Sometimes we need to just brush away our pride,

break down the walls around our hearts, and

open up to those we truly care for."

Imania Margria

The thought of venetian blinds generates numerous scenarios in my mind, leaving a strong impression.  As a child, blinds were pristine and were operated by adults only.  In my career, venetian blinds in the homes I served were generally filthy.  Often the cords were so old and sun rotted they no longer lifted the shade up nor down.   

In the last portion of my life, I think of venetian blinds as a protection around the heart.  When we are in our comfort zone, the sun brightly shines through into us.  When we are skeptical, we adjust the cords so we unobtrusively observe.  In fright, the slats are slammed closed so no one can touch nor see us.

Boundaries for the heart are definitely needed, but they must have flexibility.  By being aware, we instinctively feel when we are not safe or brightly shine when the feelings are safe.  Primarily, our heart needs to remain open to attract goodness at the risk of being disappointed.  There is far more to be gained by being heart friendly than living in isolation as an illusion of protection.