"There is a form of envy of which I frequently
have seen examples, in which an individual
tries to obtain something by bullying."
Soren Kierkegaard
Brain Pickings
Soren Kierkegaard would keenly observe the presence of a bully or hater while interacting with people. Whether he was mocked in a group or approached by a hater, he chose to react with kindness as he believed the person was attempting to obtain something.
If someone boldly laughed directly at Kierkegaard, he would single the person out with recognition and respect. He knew the person felt threatened choosing to be disrespectful to gain negative attention. Kierkegaard treated them cordially asking them questions one might ask a friend. He did not take the name calling personally.
Instead of reacting out of fear, Soren Kierkegaard displayed the opposite emotion. He would remain confident in himself and congenially address the source. This is not suggesting we enter a den of thieves! Individuals who are seeking attention through negative behavior, however, might easily shift into alignment once publicly recognized. Basically, don't hate the hater, as rarely does his behavior have anything to do with you.
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