Embracing Change

Some of us think holding on

makes us strong;

but sometimes it is letting go.

Herman Hesse

The natural rhythm of life is change, often being likened to passage down a river.  Sometimes we float along at a comfortable pace, enjoying the tree lined views along the river beds while other times we are caught in a current swiftly moving so fast that we can barely hang on!

When evaluating our life or  making assessments, we desire change or improvement even when we are uncertain as to how the appropriate adjustments will impact our routine.  It frequently feels like we travel at a snail's pace, waiting for change to come, and yet when it does, we seldom are truly prepared.

While making life changing decisions, we may feel ill prepared or uncomfortable without having a detailed plan in our hand.  We may become overwhelmed finding everything to be too complicated or obscure.  It is tempting to find a fast forward button to cut through the process and safely arrive at the end result.

The process, however, is the important part and not to be rushed through.  We must pass through this stage with awareness and creativity.  If we are creating something new, we want it to be fresh and not just a duplicate of what we have just outgrown.  Each and every thought contributes to this movement forward.  The people we come into contact or opportunities that present themselves must all be noticed for the significance they hold. 

Rather than trying to have each and every detail outlined,  we can attempt to move through transition with a more spiritual approach.  Every morning before stirring from bed, we can feel love in our heart...even if you need to pretend.  Then we can anticipate a day filled with new insights that will lead us to a deeper sense of how to orchestrate a fulfilling life.  People coming into our presence may bring love and we need to be mindful to extend love to them as well.  By this I mean to project good will either silently or through body language, creating a space for pleasant exchange. 

The process of change is a learning experience, a time to sort through what no longer serves us.  We must surround our self with those who support us and limit the the time with those who diminish our spirit.  It is a time to seek out the truth of who we are and what we are really trying to attract into our life. 

Rather than feeling overwhelmed, we can slow down and gently embrace the change that approaches.  Instead of anxiety and attempts to control, maintain a sense of love believing that the Universe/Divine/God is bringing goodness into our life.  Trust that goodness is coming and be patient. 

Our future is unfolding and each situation we face is merely a stepping stone leading us to where we are meant to be.  By using love as our approach rather than fear, we will discover meaningful guidance and arrive safely upon our chosen shore.