"Be the sunshine in someone's cloudy sky."
Debasish Mridha MD
On this beautiful fall day, we are beckoned to attend the passing of an elderly man. Although I have never met him, I have heard numerous stories of his quips and donations. Together, we face a family bearing the loss of their loved one.
What does one say to those overwhelmed by grief? Which words will lighten the heaviness of the day? How will antiquated words extend any sense of compassion? I fill my eyes with loving kindness and I search the eyes of each family member, gently gripping their hands. The brief sincere eye exchange is the best I can do.
As I sit quietly in the row of chairs, and listen to the music being played, I extend my awareness to the essence of this man, now so quietly on the other side. Does he spiritually view his beloved family and friends or has he long crossed over into a different realm? I pray this man will find God's blessings wherever his spirit resides.
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