"Sometimes surrender means giving up trying to understand
and becoming comfortable with not knowing."
Eckhart Tolle
As a spiritual person, we do not wish to argue or create discord, so rather than challenge someone, we try to understand them. We stand back to see a different view, or we may turn something upside down to see what they must see. Bewildered, we become frustrated with ourselves for not understanding.
There may be times we will be more at peace if we just accept someone's opposite stance. We can accept wherever they are without agreeing. When someone 'sees' us, we feel more positive and the result will be affirmative upon the relationship. Not knowing the intricate details may not matter at all.
If we cannot be comfortable with simply not knowing, look inside to see if the issue is about control and ego. The goal is about finding a peaceful path where we can all walk side by side in spite of our differences. We were not brought into this world as clones, so let us focus on our own purpose and discovery.
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