"Love those who appreciate you,
and appreciate those who love you."
Connor Chalfant
All of us are deserving of love, but often times we may be expecting the moon while the sun is reflected in the water. Love tends to arrive when we open our hearts to possibilities ... and this is not about settling. The kind of person we project may be based on fantasy which would never sustain us in real life.
At times, in an eagerness to make a relationship work, we acquiesce ... hide what is important to us in order to attract what is important in one other. Early in relationship, we set the course as to whether we will be the servant of love or served by love. If we refrain from investing in relationships that truly do not resonate, we would save our selves time and sorrow.
Friendships and partnerships are best honored when both parties are recognized and respected. We invest time and feelings into helping each other reach the highest potential. We all have flaws and they are to be noticed, but not focused upon. Continue to highlight the good until the weakness has grown into a strength. Engage in life together appreciating both the love received and the love given.
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