Passing Moment

"Reach out and help others.  If you have the power to make someone happy, 

do it.  Be a vessel, be a change, be the difference or be the inspiration. 

Shine our light as an example.  The world needs more of that."

Germany Kent

If we should happen to discover a part of our lovely selves we really do not like, we have the power to change it.  The first step is just being aware of the behavior or pattern running through relationships.  Be curious as to how long this action has been impacting our natural responses.  What event triggered this need or who whom did we learn it from?

Our behaviors are so automatic, we often are not aware of the bashing we give ourselves or the criticisms we extend to others.  Just a stream of unwanted words that damage our own esteem and break the hearts of others.

Be accountable for how our actions and our conversations.  During gatherings, be respectful to all people.  If we are stuck in a conversation with a person with a different belief system, try to determine at least one aspect one could accept .... like pretty eyes or straight teeth.  Seriously, this is better than being rude!  Our judgment is a reflection upon ourselves.  Be nice, even for just a passing moment.