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Showing posts with label Decision Making. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Decision Making. Show all posts

Saturday, June 1, 2013

Decision Making








Whenever an answer, a solution or a creative idea is needed,
stop thinking for a moment
by focusing your attention on your inner energy field.
Become aware of the stillness.

Eckhart Tolle
Oneness With All Life 



Whenever we face a challenge, our brains usually kick in searching for resolve.  We may grow anxious during our search which immediately interferes with cognition.  We can then mix and match a few things together forming a band aid for the problem or we resource the entire problem out for someone else to solve.  

The best reaction to a challenge, is to not react at all, but to simply sit with it for a while in silence.  We hold fear and anxiety at bay as we quietly listen to wisdom or nudges we receive from within.  If a resolution does not immediately appear, then choose not to come to a decision for awhile.  Carry on with other tasks until there is time to just pause in silence once again, listening for insight.  Keep drama and unnecessary emotion at bay, while we blend our thinking with our heart to determine the best action for all involved.

Realizing some decisions need to be made immediately, there are others that can benefit from lingering thoughts.  Years ago, a friend mentioned to me that it took Jesus the Christ three days to rise from the dead.  The friend told me to give any problem three days to work itself out.  I felt this was worth trying, and I have used it numerous times throughout my life challenges.

A solution created today, may not be as good as the one made after some time has passed.  We can avoid being impulsive or  repressing our emotions as they are somewhat sitting on a back burner.  If we maintain the attitude of searching for the best calculation and not feel pressured into quick decision, we find ourselves in a very different space, thinking more clearly, after a few days have passed.  I have repeatedly found the decisions I have made after three days have been much better long term remedies for all concerned than the quick fix of three days ago.

So next time we are contemplating an appropriate answer to a problem, simply pause.  Sit with the situation in silence.  Be open to the creative options as they begin to surface. Be still allowing our energy to flow until we feel in balance with our decision.

Sunday, August 19, 2012

Heart of the Matter





where to start
not knowing how to start,
she sat down and opened her heart.
maybe that's all she needed to do,
over and over again.

Bone Sigh Arts



Could transitions really be that easy, to just sit down and open our heart?  Would just this one gesture ground us into the heart of the matter?  By being still and opening our heart, can balance and resolution just appear?

There seems to be some merit in this approach.  Our ego usually resides in our head, so making decisions through our heart might be a more honest and spiritually guided process.   After all, many of us have learned to 'trust our gut' and have been quite pleased in doing so!  It is said 'gut decisions' have not had time to reach our head where ego selfishly talks us out of the idea.

So when we are faced with decisions, big and small, we can choose to take pause and think with our hearts.  What is best for me?  What is best for them?  What is best for the overall situation?  Our hearts are filled with love and compassion which will assist in our decision making.  In our hearts, there is no room for hatred or judgment.  Spirit dwells within our hearts and surely will not lead us astray.