Paths Intertwine

"The only thing that isn't worthless:

to live this life out truthfully and rightly.

And be patient with those who don't."

Aurelius

It is disheartening to be in the presence of a loved one who is struggling.  With compassionate listening, we may become aware of the basis for the problem or sense the remedy.  It may be difficult to hold our knowings inside, but giving advice can sometimes do more harm than good.  

Our insights are based on our personal journey which is not exactly the same as the other person's.  We could be robbing them of a lesson they would need to repeat if we simply gave an answer. During a flood of emotions, the swimmer learns best by wading through muddy waters on their own with large doses of our encouragement and compassion.    

   

We can best assist others by allowing them to find their way.  Let them know we are willingly present or will keep pace beside them, but ultimately the lesson is his or hers.  What is right and truthful for each of us is discovered on our individual path.  Our paths may intertwine, but they are never identical in unfolding.