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Showing posts with label Laurell K. Hamilton; Domestic Violence; Emotional Abuse; Survival; Depression; Conversations;. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Laurell K. Hamilton; Domestic Violence; Emotional Abuse; Survival; Depression; Conversations;. Show all posts

Saturday, March 29, 2025

Darkness Erupts




"There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper
and more hurtful than anything that bleeds."
Laurell K. Hamilton

The gathering was of strangers and as usual, I sat observing. This group was a lovely cross section of people so diversity was rather obvious. Continuously scanning, my attention was drawn to one person in particular. As I watched, her face projected differing personalities as she worked her way through the crowd.

Observing from a distance, this presumingly accomplished person seemed to be attempting to establish connection with one and all. Her politics, religion, and view of life were not available to me, but her body language spoke volumes. It felt as though her energy was on fire, close to burning out completely.

My participation was needed elsewhere so my attention shifted. It was hours later that I entered a restroom and found this same woman, sobbing. There is only one language I know which is loving kindness. I asked for permission to give her a hug and she fell into my arms. Her identity is unknown to me as well as her trauma, but I remember her still.








 

Tuesday, December 27, 2016

Suffering in Silence


"There are wounds that never show on the body
that are deeper and more hurtful
than anything that bleeds."
Laurell K. Hamilton

Domestic violence can be detected by simply examining the physical body for broken bones, fractures or bruises.  Emotional abuse is a complex experience that can remain hidden, never to be exposed as there are no physical signs.

Careless words can break a person's heart.  Demeaning remarks can stunt ability to thrive.  Even cold silence impacts emotional development.  There is no emergency room where emotional trauma can be cleansed, medicated, and wrapped in gauze.

Teasing and sarcasm can be painful like arrows shot to the heart.  Bringing up past hurtful experiences does not have a positive intention and breaks the momentum of healing.  Endeavor to use supportive and uplifting conversations to assist those suffering in silence to survive holiday cheer.