"Waiting hurts. Forgetting hurts. But
not knowing which decision to take
can sometimes be the most painful."
Jose N. Harris
Waiting for results or answers can be a very painful period of time. It can last a few minutes or a life time. If we can wait no longer, we decide to push the memory or incident away, This totally drains our energy as we repress our unaddressed emotions.
When we grow weary of this waiting, we may decide to make a decision. Perhaps it is too early or maybe even too late, but we can no longer tolerate being suspended in not knowing. To make a decision not based upon all facts, can be harmful to all involved.
If we feel the need to move forward, it is beneficial to create some form of ending. Whether we seek advice from a mentor; express in deep private writing; or silently in meditation, to have some sense of resolution will help create an ending. If we are forcing the issue out of revenge or suffering there will be even more pressure and discord. As it takes toll on body, mind, and spirit, it becomes imperative to let go.
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