We cling to our own point of view, as though everything depended on it. Yet our opinions have no permanence; like autumn and winter, they gradually pass away. ~ Chuang Tzu
It is important to know how we feel about life, death, and all things in between. When we form rigid opinions, however, we are shutting out other information that could deepen or change how we perceive things to be. Perhaps, this is the clue ... new information could facilitate change. We feel much more comfortable with permanency surrounding us and all things securely in place.
By nature, I am a curious person and quite inquisitive. I have a strong belief system which has been based on eclectic information gathered over the years. Glancing back, I can see how some of my beliefs were replaced while others grew more certain as I found additional information to reinforce how I felt.
In order to maintain opinions, it is good to allow them to be vulnerable to other's thoughts and assessments. Personal truth can be aired and refreshed by the inspection of some one else. Do we hide our truth for fear it will not withstand up against an other? Many times, just the opposite happens. When we face an opposing view, our opinion can be strengthened through the discussion.
Ideally, we can stand firm with our convictions, but with an open heart to respectfully listen to others. New information will either reinforce what you already believe or bring new insight to what you originally believed.
My opinions have evolved over the years by opening my heart to the thoughts and learning's of others. I do not have to believe or reject wisdom, but listening respectfully is wise as truth with stands all scrutiny.
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