"Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up
her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom,
which landed in the valley of change."
Shannon L. Alder
Transitions are difficult for many reasons. We take our lovely selves out of our comfort zone and we set ourselves up for criticism from friends ... who don't like change either. At first we are mildly aware of a shift, and carefully move forward. As time passes, we become aware of our passages forward as our old life is but a reflection in the rear view mirror.
Friends may encourage change, just as long as the alteration does not effect them. There are women who find themselves in dysfunctional relationships and yearn to better themselves. Unfortunately, the unhealthy relationship does not encourage dreams or desires.
This is not to say one has to leave present life in order to change. It is ideal to be able to enhance our selves in place bringing our friends along through our stories of experience. If we are surrounded by those who truly love us and support us without feeling themselves threatened, we can make great head way where we are planted.
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