The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid,
but he who conquers that fear.
NELSON MANDELA
We all experience fear, but we do not necessarily experience the same fear. One person may fear flying in an airplane while another fears dogs, so there is not a constant in the fear ... meaning it is not factual or we would all have the same reaction.
In A DEEP BREATH OF LIFE, author Alan Cohen states "One of our missions in life is to discover what holds us back from being ourselves and dismantle our illusions."
This author suggests they we bring to mind someone who does not share our fear and visualize them handling the same situation with ease and peace. The
next time you are feeling fearful, duplicate similar behavior of confidence and calm.
Alan Cohen suggests that we ask our self this question:
"If I were not afraid, I would ....
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Go ahead! Make a list and see just how much fear limits us from experiencing life fully. Take the risk and face each situation with peace discovering the illusion of fear.
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